Next time you’re expecting company, don’t worry so much about having your place all cleaned up! In fact, how about leaving a few things “undone” on purpose!? It’ll save you time, helps you learn to care less about appearances and gives your visitors permission to chill and not compare the mess they left behind with your “perfect” surroundings. If you stress over being judged for how much (or little) you clean, consider this: Are your friends really so shallow that they would hold your housekeeping against your character? Is it fair for you to expect that from them?